A. No petition for adoption shall be granted by the court unless the adoptee was placed in the home of the petitioner for the purpose of adoption:

(1)     by the department;

(2)     by an appropriate public authority of another state; (3)     by an agency; or

(4)     pursuant to a court order, as provided in Section 32A-5-13 N.M. Stat. Ann..

B. The provisions of Subsection A of this section do not apply to a child in the department’s custody who is being adopted pursuant to the provisions of the Abuse and Neglect Act [N.M. Stat. Ann. Chapter 32A, Article 4].

C. When an adoptee is not in the custody of the department or an agency, the adoption is an independent adoption and the provisions of this section and Section 32A- 5-13 NMSA 1978 shall apply, except when the following circumstances exist:

(1)     a stepparent of the adoptee seeks to adopt the adoptee and prior to the filing of the adoption petition, the adoptee has lived with the stepparent for at least one year since the marriage of the stepparent to the custodial parent and the family has received counseling, as provided for in Section 32A-5-22 N.M. Stat. Ann.;

(2)     a relative within the fifth degree of consanguinity to the adoptee or that relative’s spouse seeks to adopt the adoptee, and, prior to the filing of the adoption petition, the adoptee has lived with the relative or the relative’s spouse for at least one year; or

(3)     a person designated to care for the adoptee in the will of the adoptee’s deceased parent seeks to adopt the adoptee, and, prior to the filing of the adoption petition, the adoptee has lived with that person for at least one year.

D. All placements shall be made by the department, an agency or the parent of the adoptee pursuant to Section 32A-5-13 N.M. Stat. Ann..

E. In all adoptions, prior to any placement being made, the person making the placement shall provide full disclosure.